Whenever i decide not to watch porn and do masterbation, after a week my mind convinced me anyway to watch porn and masterbate and the day i break the habit i start watching and doing everyday.i couldn’t focus on anything for long because of porn and masterbation. I tried multiple times not to watch porn, eventually if i can control not to watch porn , i can gradually stop masturbating but porn is the main enemy. Please anyone have any solution for this ??
Can't control the urges more than a week
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A few basic tips… Start going to the gym to get feel stronger physical AND mentally. Go to the gym at the same time everyday to make it a habit, ideally at least 5x a week. Limiting recreational phone time and deleting dating apps for the time being. Putting your phone down at least an hour before bed. Don’t use phone at all on your bed, to help condition your mind that your bed is for sleeping only. Hope this helps.