PLEASE SEND MOTIVATION TO HELP ME GET BACK ON TRACK.
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PLEASE SEND MOTIVATION TO HELP ME GET BACK ON TRACK.
THANKS.
Work on Your goals, that's the best possible motivation I think π€
Look at all those stars, brother. Donβt fool yourself into thinking that you are NOT moving in the right direction. Write about how you feel right now and reaffirm your goals and direction.
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When you're climbing up a mountain and you slip, it's not the first slip-up that leads you to your doom. It's when you don't catch yourself and let yourself keep falling that leads to death.
Catch yourself on this slip-up and keep climbing upward.
I've been getting whopped in life. I've almost caved in several times. I've noticed the most difficult time to resist is when there are problems in life. Just try to remember that someday you will meet someone who will need your help. Everyone has the chance to save at least one person in their life. The thing is they're not going to be helped by your lower self, they will be helped by your higher self. You're heroic self. Remember, the world needs as many good people in it as it can get, and it needs them to be as leveled up as possible. Your world needs you. Don't give up Batman!
P.S. Here's a verse from scripture that always helps me: Proverbs 16:32- "He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city."
Dude! You're an inspiration to us all! I don't know if you're being genuine or trying to shock us into being vigilant about porn.
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But if you have really relapsed - I recommend reading my system. It's the only permanent cure that I know of - and I developed it myself, by God's Grace, and escaped from porn over 7 months ago. It works 100% And I've developed it after trying out so many other systems and figured out their flaws.
https://www.conqueredself.com/wars/no-pmo-war-xxxix/topics/good-luck-and-read-my-system-to-escape_from_porn
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https://www.conqueredself.com/wars/no-pmo-war-xxxviii/topics/my-system-the-only-one-that-works
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Read it and let me know if you have any questions.
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This relapse of yours is just a minor hiccup - perhaps you were stressed out and temporarily needed a friend and the only one you could think of was porn.
Could you share more details of what led to it? Just saying "I have fallen" isn't helpful, even to give you motivation/consolation.
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Remember that being free from porn is our normal state. When you're stuck in porn, you would have missed out on so many activities. Free from porn, one can do enjoy these productive, fruitful activities. What other motivation do you need?
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Now that I'm free from porn - the ladies in my life (colleagues, friends etc.) look at me with admiration as if I'm a movie star. Their eyes light up and their smiles are cartoonishly wide. Some others bite their lip and silently burn with passion inside, trying to hide their true feelings (but I can see that in plain sight). The men in my life look up to me as a leader.
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And I don't have to do anything for all this (and lots more benefits) other than stay away from porn and maintain self-discipline. Nothing else.
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Self-discipline (or lack of it) seeps into every aspect of your life.
The disciplined man is able to easily refuse all forms of temptations. He can maintain his diet, his exercise regimen, his professional life, personal life, growth goals.
He's tempted neither by chocolate nor by video games; nor is he depressed with setbacks (in personal/professional/financial life). He's not diverted from his priorities; and does not bend to emotional guilt from loved ones.
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The undisciplined man is the polar opposite.
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So choose your path wisely.
Go dark, think about life. Do you really wanna live a life where you jerk off and are a loser. What caused the relapse? Find out why you lost this battle, so you can win the next one. The battle is lost but the war isn't over yet.
This is a small setback, but if you keep losing yourself in these bad habits you will be back to the start of this new lifestyle. Don't let it happen.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=NyTSM2DjYpY&t=0m44s
This is one of the most eye opening video's for I've watched it plenty of times.
Don't binge!