So glad that you've come to the realization that willpower method is foolish.
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I have been telling this for a long time. Willpower method will eventually fail. It's like brute forcing a SHA-256 algorithm password. Impossible.
Initially, for simple passwords (with just 100 combinations), brute force will work, but it cannot be scaled against complicated passwords (with 1 million combinations).
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Similarly, initial few days - willpower seems to help, but as the days go by, urges will get strong. And we too cannot forever be expending energy to keep resisting urges - we have to live a life. Resisting porn is not our full time job.
So the willpower shall grow weaker while the urges grow stronger. And eventually, when the balance tips (urge is stronger than willpower), you will snap and relapse.
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And if you read my system, you'll notice that Stress / Dopamine Management is paramount - that's the key.
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Remember that when we're calm and vigilant, we make perfectly noble decisions.
However, when we're anxious and vulnerable - that's when our mind is clouded and we make sh*tty choices.
Hence, stress management is key not just for escaping from porn, but to life itself.
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First accept that life is going to be stressful. That uber motivated state which drives you in taking up good habits - it won't last very long. You need to have systems in place to handle the polar opposite days - the horribly depressing days wherein you mentally eviscerate yourself reminding yourself of failures.
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Read my system to understand the correct method to escape from porn. I've given the right tools.
Stop using willpower method. You CANNOT brute force this.
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It works 100% And I've developed it after trying out so many other systems and figured out their flaws.
https://www.conqueredself.com/wars/no-pmo-war-xxxix/topics/good-luck-and-read-my-system-to-escape_from_porn
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https://www.conqueredself.com/wars/no-pmo-war-xxxviii/topics/my-system-the-only-one-that-works