No PMO War XXXIX

02/26/24 - 04/15/24
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Hi guys im still standing!
Today is day 18 and tomorrow 19 of no PMO or MO!!! Its great and everyday is a oportunity of learning and self improvement. Today I focus mostly in my work and meeting a girl that I'm building some relationship with. We now some days are cool, others are frustating... But life has things like it right? I dont know much about using the platform, dont know if im already in a war or not, if i lost in a war or dont, but i still standing and will be here from days to days... Good luck for all of us!
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Disasters of the Highest Degree
Disasters of the Highest Degree One day a renowned writer by the name of Xie Yun came to see me for a consultation. Knowing that I have written over one hundred books, and that I never skip a day without writing, Xie Yun expressed admiration for my perseverance. Xie Yun himself is a superbly talented writer who has written many outstanding expositions with brilliantly incisive and unique views. I highly respect him. So when a writer of such stature sought me out, I was naturally very pleased. "Living Buddha Lian-sheng, I have heard that you can communicate with the world of the spirits. Is this true?" he asked me. "To a certain degree." "Can you ask something on my behalf?" I laughed, "You are such a fine person with such international fame. Your philosophic theories demonstrate a supreme faculty of reasoning. Is there really any problem you cannot solve?" Xie Yun said sternly, "What you say is true. In all my life, I never believed any of the superstitions about gods, ghosts, and the worlds of spirit, nor did I believe it possible to communicate with them. As for the books you have written, I used to sneer at them. But, this was in the past. I hope you will forgive me. I am sixty-four now, and looking back upon this life of mine, my talents and scholarship have definitely not been inferior to or weaker than anyone else's. Yet, in the academic field, I have never held an important position. In the field of public service, several opportunities have also passed me by. Although I may be a well-known writer, in reality, I am quite depressed. Throughout this life of mine, I have always been pushed aside by others and unable to achieve my ambitions." "Do such things happen to you?" I was flabbergasted. Xie Yun continued, "You look at me and see a famous writer. But the truth is, I have no money and no official title. My marriage is over, and my family is gone. My health is also deteriorating. After these sixty-four years, I have only several old books to my credit. I repeatedly run into difficulties, as if an invisible hand has pushed all scholarly honor and official titles away from me. Can there really be such a thing as fate? Otherwise, why have I encountered such bad luck? Would you be able to ask for me?" "All right," I agreed. Before Xie Yun, I closed my eyes and prayed silently to my three Personal Deities: Golden Mother of Jade Pond, Amitabha, and Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva. "I have this individual, Xie Yun, before me now, who desires to learn of the karmic reasons behind his merits and demerits. Spiritual divinations, authentic channels to the subtle realm, please quickly bestow on me an answer. Disperse the web of bewilderment and fulfill our request to seek understanding. Jiji-rulu-ling." At that moment, a sparkling white light suddenly appeared before my eyes. In the middle of the white light appeared a large hole and, from the hole, a green-robed youth emerged with a registry in hand. On the cover of the register, I noticed the name-Xie Yun. The green-robed youth opened the register for me to read the contents, and after reading through, I was greatly shocked. According to this register, Xie Yun should have held an official rank. At a university, he was not merely to have attained tenure as a professor, but he should have become president of the university as well. Additionally, he was to have been employed as a government administrator. Right there in the register, were the listings of wealth, official rank, a happy-family, good health, and a life span of eighty-nine years. A loyal and honest man, Xie Yun is always filial to his parents and has never cheated anybody. What happened to all these "predestined" merits of his? As I continued reading, I came to the final page of the register. There, a small paragraph described an incident that occurred in Xie Yun's youth. On one occasion, he had wanted to earn some extra money from a publisher and for fun, had hastily written six slim volumes of pornography, lewd and explicit writings that were essentially all nonsense. It was the publication of these six pornographic novels that had whittled away all his merits in marriage, wealth, children, rank, health, and life span! It was at this point that I understood completely. I opened my eyes and asked, "What did you do when you were young?" "I studied. I have always been first in my classes." "Did you write anything?" "Yes, I contributed articles to newspapers and journals." "Any books?" "No, not at that time." "I am sure you did," I spoke with firmness. "No, I did not," he replied. "What about several slim volumes of pornographic novels?" I asked candidly. This time, Xie Yun's mouth dropped open and his face turned red in astonishment and embarrassment. "Oh! You found out! Yes, it is true." "Six volumes?" "Yes, six of them," Xie Yun nodded. "These six volumes of pornography have whittled away all auspiciousness and cause for celebration in your life, resulting in one disaster after another. If it were not for the degree and nature of virtuous deeds accumulated in a previous life, you would not be alive today." Xie Yun was shocked, "How could those works have been so damaging?" I responded, "Pornography causes one's mind to become unbridled and lecherous. Such novels will encourage men and women who read them to act disgracefully and immorally." I quoted aloud, Between heaven and earth, only birds and beasts mate promiscuously, Without a sense of shame, embarrassment, or infamy. Humans, the crown of all creatures, should cherish a sense of shame and honor. By committing incest, a human is no better than the birds and beasts. Sexual misconduct is the primary demon that leads to degeneration. To seriously pursue spiritual cultivation, One must uproot all licentious desires. I continued further, "Human beings are born from sexual desires. At birth, everyone has within him the seed of sexual desire, and this is part of the reason why we have particularly strong sex drives. According to the laws of karma, men are born from sex and will therefore die from sex. Only when one understands this reasoning, will one exercise control and not over-indulge one's desires. Sexual restraint has many benefits including good health and long life, success and auspiciousness. Leading others down the path of sexual indulgence and degeneration, causing others to lose their chi, will result in the deterioration of one's own family and visits from the gods of misfortune. Instead of attaining one's wishes one may get just the opposite." Xie Yun then asked, "What about marital sex between a husband and wife?" "Even husbands and wives should not over-indulge in sex. Practice restraint in all cases. Complete disregard of taboos will inevitably lead to diminished health and loss of life." "But my mistake has already been made," Xie Yun lamented. "How can I amend the past?" I replied, "As far as I know, karmic transgressions generated from the writing, painting, or creation of pornographic books, pictures, or sculptures, will disappear only when the works themselves vanish. Otherwise, the resulting karmic hindrances will always follow one around!" Xie Yun was greatly shocked, "Can it really be this serious?" "That's right," I said. "If these six pornographic novels continue circulating, they will continue to influence all who read their contents. Think about it. How can the karmic hindrances created by these books ever be eliminated?" "At the time, I only wrote them rashly for money. It never occurred to me that the works would give rise to such disasters of the highest degree. What should I do now?" I told Xie Yun, "Well, you now have two options. First, you can start writing books to warn people against sexual indulgence and misconduct. Secondly, whenever you come across pornographic books, burn them." "That sounds like a good solution," Xie Yun responded satisfactorily. Sometime later, I received a thank you letter from him in which he acknowledged the accuracy of my spiritual divination. He now believes in the existence of the spiritual realm and has taken up the practice of Buddhism. No longer does he dare make the claim that karma is mere superstition. To confirm the accuracy of my readings, Xie Yun actually mailed me his six volumes of pornography, his own set which he had held on to for all these years. The books had been written under the pseudonym "Pleasure Stalk" and some of the titles are: Pleasure Amid Pleasures, The Happiness of Coupling, and The Wife of the Director…. When I was young, I remember visiting the street book peddlers at the night market on Liu He Er Road in Kaohsiung and seem to remember coming across these books. They have done quite a bit of damage to many young students. As a sign of his repentance, Xie Yun requested that I burn the six books. I carried out the task for him. Here is a poem in commemoration of this incident: If a lecherous person does not awaken from his dreams, Dazed, befuddled, entrapped by indulgences and licentiousness, Sooner or later, disasters will descend. Remember, Form is emptiness, And true self-nature is luminous and perfect.
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What would you do with 14,600 hours?
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/6tt0rh/what_would_you_do_with_14600_hours/?rdt=59632 I wrote this 8 years ago and I post this every now and then to help people with their addiction. Imagine. I'm 30 years old. I learned to masturbate from a friend at the age of 11. I just rounded that to 20 years for number sake. 365days in a year x 20 years=7,300 Now 7,300 x 2 hours of Porn/PMO = 14,600HOURS!!! 14,600+ HOURS! To be honest this is pretty accurate, or underestimate for my point of view. How about you guys? I challenge you to calculate How long you been going for and the amount of time spent. How much of your life have you wasted? 14,600 HOURS IS 608 DAYS AND 8 HOURS. ALMOST 2 YEARS! 2 YEARS! On my game Guild wars 2, I have over 7,500 hours spent on it 312 days, and 12 hours. COMBINE BOTH OVER 3 YEARS +! That's a scary image huh? I'm not saying everyone give up their leisure time but 3 years of leisure time is too much. And we have people in our Barrack that are Karma level one that can't take 10 minutes to press LIKE on 3 post to get there karma up. You can get karma up in 3 very simple ways, LIKE A POST, START A POST, COMMENT ON A POST. Quite easy. But, for me imaging the benefits of what 14,600+7,500= 22,100 hours you could've done/improved your life with. If I worked out 22,100 hours, I could've been in the Expendables movie. Bigger than Arnold, 2 or 3 PhD Degrees. I would've had a girlfriend, wife and kids already. I would've have made enough money for a 2 story house and a good car and more! I'm not complaining but, 22,100 working at a $8.50 rate will get you $187,000 without taxes. That's the reality of porn addiction PMO. You spent $187,000 for a virtual stripper that doesn't even touch you or care about you!!! 22,100 taken away from adequate sleep, workout time and study preparation. If I trained for 22,100 hours, to be honest, I would be an Olympian by now. I would've open my own company. I want to use this as a wake up call for everyone. You may think that 30 minutes a day, quick fap means nothing. But, it adds up a lot over time. And it's very costly. According to the math I just did it cost me over $100,000 a chance to be Valedictorian in high school, my livelihood and more. You guys reading this are better than me, and I expect better. In college, I had tons of girls flock to me and my room, did I ever close the interaction, ie. get laid? NOT ONCE. I'm not saying nofap is to help you get laid. It's here to change your life, but the consequences of PMO will lower your sex drive, self-esteem, time management skills, relationship with friends. WAKE UP. If the consequences of PMO aren't that strong of you to stop relapsing and clicking KIA. Then read my story or share it with other people. I don't want to see any more people KIA from Water anymore, and I hope everyone will be at karma level 10 by next week. PMO is BAD! Plain and Simple. I reflect on what I could've done, would've been. I was a graduate student and college and it went down hill. Might or might not be due to porn, but I was PMOing every day in college enough said. I did it every day, until Maybe 24 years old, even if it was for a quicky. I had a small break where I had long streaks. But, the damage was done physically, mentally, spiritually, and relationship wise. I mean, my habits, mannerism, behavior and social interaction reflected me. I even heard people talking behind me back saying. "Is he Jacking off again in the shower?" They would say you know it. If I was ever confined too long in my room, they would joke if I was playing with myself. Of course I said no. Who would admit to that? I was/am embarrassed and ashamed of my actions and hiding it. I lost a lot, but that war. In this war, we lose people, friends, respect, dignity, money, status, fame. That's why I'm going so hard on myself and others to not binge or nofap. It's so easy these days with UNLIMITED MOBILE DATA, on your phone. I mean perverts have easy access now. To go to an extreme, I will call you a pervert, if you do look at porn. I was even taunted as a pedophile once–that's not a good thing, even if they were just teasing. Even if my friend's were joking, that's not a good label to have on your head, especially in public. It hurts you on the inside. I'm making a commitment now, to commit the next 14,600 hours to better myself and others. This is my 4th nofap war. It won't be my last. I have tons of material I want to write about now, imagine how many books I can write over 14,600 times. I could've been a master novelist, amongst other things. For those reading this, I want you guys to tell me: What would you guys do with 14,600 hours? Be detailed, Imagine, Immerse yourself in it. Feel it come to life. Because, it's here. This is Hour 1, 14,599 more hours to go. "A MOMENT OF PLEASURE, LEADS TO A LIFE TIME OF SUFFERING" ~Sheng-yen Lu
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Happy Valentinsday
I am 31 and I never had a girlfriend in my Life. I failed again today and I felt like a complete Looser once more. Lucky to those who are currently in a Relationship. You must wake up with a smile after every morning seeing your girl. You are so lucky. I wish I were you. Happy Valentinsday.
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Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night
As the title suggests, you must never lose sight of your goals and dreams. However, this is often easier said than done. As humans, we are constantly influenced by a whirlwind of emotions—one moment, we may feel strong and resolute, and the next, impulsive and uncertain. The key realization is that this journey has no true end. Do not expect to wake up one day completely free from struggle; the pull toward what is destructive remains with us indefinitely. What truly matters is your ability to manage this inner conflict and transform perceived weakness into strength, in whatever way you can. Yet no matter how disciplined you believe yourself to be, never loosen your grip on self-control. Chaos is always a possibility, lurking at the edge, ready to take hold if given the chance. "It’s just as though one’s second self were standing beside one; one is sensible and rational oneself, but the other self is impelled to do something perfectly senseless, and sometimes very funny; and suddenly you notice that you are longing to do that amusing thing, goodness knows why; that is, you want to, as it were, against your will; though you fight against it with all of your might, you want to." — Fyodor Dostoyevsky, A Raw Youth
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A new age has been reached

Well done Momentum and Flux for progressing this week with the highest active duty soldiers.

Congratulations to all civilizations that upgraded to the next age and to all soldiers that are still standing strong.

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Just now soldier. Day 10 without PMO or MO.
Thank you all for being part of this comunity... Still learning how it works. Wish all luck for everyone and may we all win this battle!
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I'm uncomfortable in this community sometimes
The more I come back to this community the less I want to stay Some of you guys say things that should be kept to yourselves or should be diluted or something. I'm not here for any cosmic reason or super stoic belief or bro-science like powers, I just don't like pmo The only reason I'm here is because this aspect of starting a "war" together with fellow people is a very nice motivator for me, and it gives me some much needed structure (as opposed to subreddits) as well as some comradery. But I don't really feel comfortable in this community, except when I find those rare people that act kind and calm. I guess what I'm trying to say is, is anyone in this community that isn't so unfiltered? Please just like comment below or like or something if someone agrees with me because I feel the voices of people like me tend to be more "in the background" so to speak as opposed to the others and maybe this can motivate y'all. For me, if I see even 1 voice here that is like me, then I can find strength in a community I feel I belong. I want to continue in these wars but I don't feel comfortable here honestly. I don't want to hate on anyone, I just want to find my community
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Believe alone won't change anything
Believe alone won't change anything, if precise changes won't get implemented in place in life. If masturbation and porn use is a symptom of a problem, then the problem won't get solved even if symptom will be stopped. There will still be some unhealthy consequences of the problem lingering in life. Solve the core reason of the problem, and the symptom will diminish on it's own. Once again, find the core reason of the problem and take care of it. If people will continue on trying to get rid of a symptom of the problem, without taking care of the problem instead, then the consequences of the problem will continue to happen, but will simply happen in a different form/way. That's why people who quit one addiction, fall into the other addiction, because they don't get rid of a core reason of the problem, but simply get rid of a symptom of the problem.
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Ejaculating inside the vagina is an unmatched heavenly feeling; Don't lose it by chasing masturbation
For the fappers, here's some motivation. Stop wasting your energy on porn or masturbation. There's a whole different joy that fapping is stealing from you. . . Imagine in this age, a guy still using old typewriters and having never experienced the awesomeness of smartphones. The guy has heard about it, but he just cannot imagine what it's like; Doesn't even believe that smartphones could be so much more awesome than a typewriter. That's how vastly different sex is when compared to PMO. . . Ejaculating inside the vagina is a heavenly feeling unmatched by anything else. The vagina is a sacred vessel perfected over millions of years to house the penis. The penis and vagina go together. They're a heavenly pairing. In the Hindu religion they're sacred symbols of God - Linga and Yoni. . No amount of lube or no type of oral sex or no kind of porn/sex-toy can ever come close to the feeling of being wrapped around by an aroused vagina and naturally ejaculating in it (without any hands or extra stimulation). That means even sex with prostitutes doesn't compare to sex with a loving partner. . . . Never waste sperm anywhere other than a vagina. . . . . . I have said this multiple times everywhere- DO NOT BUNCH porn with sex. NoFAP does not mean NoSex. Retain your semen for sex, and that too sex with someone special. Don't ever waste it on porn. ____________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ Sex is a fruit - eating it whole nourishes the body. All the nutrition shall be absorbed by the body. . Masturbation is a processed packaged juice of the fruit, containing only 10% of the true fruit. The rest are just harmful chemicals. It contains some nutrition but nowhere close to the full fruit. And the taste is totally different too. . Porn is a plastic replica of the real fruit - it has neither the taste nor the nutrition of the real fruit. In fact - even a small bite of the plastic porn fruit will lead to cancer.
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