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Today was my 8th day of abstaining from PMO. Last night, I had trouble sleeping. So I played some video games late night and tried sleeping after that but couldn't. Eventually, I fantasized having s*x with some hot chick back from my college. Got a hard dick and also leaked. I wonder if this will have some effect in my reboot. There was no PMO. I had this doubt many times. Can someone shed light on this?
Thanks…
Hey Pain
Well firstly its your life, meaning its your rules and your journey to decide
For me personally…
By leaking I assume you mean Pre-Cum. If this is what you mean then as far as my understanding it has no affect on your journey and would not count as a relapse because you dont lose any benefits for it because you did not use p, you didnt o and m also.
Here is a video by Scandinavian Bob that should clear things up for you: https://youtu.be/mXhhjsAu0fk
Also I watched a video in the past that explains precum does not produce anything from your balls themselves. It is just a liquid and sometimes that liquid will carryover left over semen around your prostate and other areas. But you are still fully retaining all your semen. I tried looking for the video but I cant find it. (I think it was also made by Scandinavian Bob)
I hope this helps, Good Luck!
It won't have any effect on your reboot since you haven't done anything that's considered PMO. A tip i'd give you though is to try not to dwell on those erotic thoughts, they could become much more than just thoughts and could lead you to relapse if you aren't careful enough. Just redirect your attention to something else and you'll be good.
Like the other guys said, as long as u didnt play with your apparatus, ure fine. Fantasies are actually good and stimulates your brain. I wush u all the best on your Journey 😎👍
Hi friend!
You're good. As long as you don't intentionally do PMO, it's fine. some people even experience a "harder leakage" than you did, called a "Nocturnal Emission". Your body has to release some quantities of semen from time to time, it does not affect your mental state nor your hormonal state, at least not enough to stop the benefits of noFap.
I would just be very careful with "fantasising about sex", because that can become a trigger very rapdly, wich leads to relapse most of the times, specially if you have a smartphone at your side when in bed.
Thats only my personal view on the subject and i may be wrong according to others perspective, but this is what i believe and i hope it helps you.
(text may be wrongly written, sorry about it, not a native english speaker!)
Thanks a lot. Maybe you are right. And I should definitely try to control my fantasies.
I think the main problem of Fantasies are that they create a high risk for a relapse, which then would have a strong negative influence on your reboot. The fantasie on it´s own is not so stimulating for your brain than seeing P-Material so even if the same neuronal pathways of your brain will get excited like when watching P the dopamine spikes should much lower and therefore it isn´t that bad so don´t worry too much, but still try to avoid such fantasies.
Sure man! There is a high risk with the fantasies. I'll try to stop em. Thanks!
