I will be married soon. I started dating my girlfriend when I was on a nofap streak almost three years ago, unfortunately sometime during our relationship I fell back into porn. I've been on and off with nofap while with her. She and I abstain until marriage. Our wedding is just a few months away, I'm making a promise to myself that she is going to be the only woman I'll ever see like that for the rest of my life.
That's awesome, great for you and I wish you well.
It's tempting to think that once you are married that the temptation for porn will go away because you will have a different outlet to fulfill sexual desire. I can tell you though that the temptation doesn't go away, because there will be times you will be lonely even in marriage. Do your best to deal with it now so that it won't be an issue in your marriage, which I know you are already doing.
@IAM1776 do your best to deal with this addiction before you get married because I can tell you from experience that porn had a very damaging affect on my first two marriages and I’m still working with it on my third…
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