Hey, some time ago there was no-PMO war with over 1400 guys, what happened? Is it just lack of announcement or people just gave up to porn?
Hey, some time ago there was no-PMO war with over 1400 guys, what happened? Is it just lack of announcement or people just gave up to porn?
I like to think that a lot of them succeeded and they just don't use the website, the further you get the less you have a need for it.
I'm at 14 months and I barely check the website, it isn't a daily struggle like it used to be so I'll forget to check in. Or since I work more than 12 hours I just forget it over everything happening in life.
Look at the lack of activity in a good light most of us succeeded. You'll succeeded as well it just takes time and commitment.
Also as part of quitting a lot of people take up hobbies and other things to remove the temptation. So a lot of people now have other things to think about and do.
When you aren't constantly struggling you don't think about it, and checking in to a website everyday is a constant reminder of what you quit. I'd rather not be reminded of it daily if I can avoid it. If I was struggling I might join a war but I think the daily log in would do more harm than good at this point.
I quit so why remind myself daily of it? Why risk my sobriety? Why watch other people fail? Why read the excuses and justifications of others when they fail when it might effect me?
I apologies if I sound cynical or heartless. This is my own opinion on the matter.