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Hey guys,
Month back I was writing that I met a girl and that we started to date.
Long story short one month after she had written me that it should end.
It left me speechless. We were not arguing or anything…
Now I’m wondering what did I did wrong.
We arranged a meeting so I’ll update after it…
Now I have no other option but continue building habits and more.
Hey guys,
So this is the update…
The girl told me that she is doing a lot of effort to show the love for me…
I realised that this would lead into bigger pain and caused bigger wounds…
We talked about this and decided that it would be better for us to not continue…
It ended well with no argument and decision to be friends.
And what now…
I decided that it would be better If I would just get myself fixed…
Let God and time heal the pain and wait for the one or to find purpose for my life…
Make my priorities right and get on a new path of life…
The way will be long and painful but it’s worth it…
I’ll do my best.
@sadly_addicted09
My supposed dream girl left me 3 Months ago. I thought it would destroy me, but afterwards I could finally see, how anxious and hard I was trying to make things work out. Although I am hurt, it has given me plenty of freedom to make my life work. Something she said to me in the last weeks of our relationship really stuck with me: ,Everyone has potential to self-improve, but you gotta somehow find a way to keep peace with your current self.' Because what we are all chasing is an ideal, and if we deprive ourself from any validation until we reach that ideal, we're all gonna die in pain someday.
Instead of focusing on fixing yourself, because you couldn't keep this particular girl, look for things to change, so YOU like your life better. I am trying to stop worrying about never finding a woman to eventually found a family with, so I can focus more on being who I have to be in order to feel fulfilled. We cannot make our fulfillment in life dependent on a girl, instead, it has to be within us, because only that realm we can fully control.
Have a great day, see you in the war!
Sounds like both of you guys are on the right path! We all have a lot to heal and that’s why we’re here… See you in the battlefield 💪🙏
Never place your hopes on anybody to save you from this addiction.
Only you can extricate yourself from this mess.
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Women are fickle. They're driven by emotion. Don't let yourself go down a spiral for their actions. You must focus on improving yourself.
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During such stressful times, it's necessary to be extra vigilant because you're highly susceptible to relapsing into porn. So watch out!
@Escape_From_Porn
Thank you for your advice.
