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I think I'm turning Chad..
I don't count days.. Now days
Everyday is cold shower for mee. whether morning or evening
And I got my jawline peaking cause of mewing..
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I don't think you should be disrespectful to newer guys by calling them "virgins" just cause they are counting days. Remember some guy might be starting nofap this year and this might be his first war. It can be discouraging for them. Everyone has their journey let them find their own path in this war.
No such classification is needed in my opinion.
Everyone has their life to handle, so let's allow everyone to handle it, how they want to.
After all they'll get the fruit of their life's labour π
While I agree that not counting days is better in the long run, looking down on people for doing so isn't the best way to go about it. This war is a tough one to fight, and many think they're alone fighting a losing battle. We should try to be open to those people and show them the comradery they've needed.
Well, except for driving a monster truck (I drive a regular car) and wearing sunglasses at the club (Been a long time since I visited clubs), I got the rest of chad's characteristics locked down:
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I always take ice cold showers, and drink ice cold water no matter the weather. I rarely need to wear a jacket, and in fact I spent an entire month in peak winter without any heating (I had put on couple of comforters but it was still terribly cold. I wanted to see how much I could handle, and I could save on the heating costs as well.)
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I flip a 200 lb tire for about 50 reps, and smash it with a sledgehammer for 50 reps as my gym warmup.
I teach meditation and pranayama to folks, lead religious / self-improvement sermons, and unabashedly love thick girls and am a magnet for them.
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True story:
Few months ago, at a work party, I was sitting at a circular table flanked by 2 chicks each on either side of me. The table had 5 chicks and 2 guys (me and another guy).
There was another chick at adjacent table was openly calling out to me to sit next to her because I was the life of the party. A splendidly dressed chick from a far-off table walked up to ours and asked her friend at my table to be introduced to me. A blazing hot chick two tables across was staring at us with jealousy and yearning (her table was as silent as a hearse).
And it's not just chicks - the guys too were looking up to me and listening to my every word. Every joke I placed landed; every story applauded; if I said let's go somewhere and take a photo - everyone (about 30 people) followed.
Some of them were very senior to me, some much much richer. But it didn't matter - everyone looks at me as a leader.
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But I'm not saying this to flexβ¦. maybe I am. ;-)
But I'd like you to understand that there's a great life outside of this prison of porn.
Becoming chad is not some impossible dream. Leaving porn alone will not get you there - but it's the start.
Anyway, about counting days:
First of all, let me explain why you're counting days and it'll all make sense to you.
The streak is like an armor for you.
You hold it as a shield against your urges "You can't hurt me porn demon - I've kept you at bay for X number of days"
30 days or 300 days or 3000 days or whatever.
Well, the truth is (and it's one of the tenets of my system) - you can never develop immunity to porn.
Porn is like a radioactive substance that causes cancer. You can only escape from it and stay away- you can never develop immunity.
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So even after 30 days - if you've been using the willpower method - then you will eventually get an urge that will brush aside the carefully constructed 30-day "shield". And then you start from 0.
This pattern will keep repeating ad infinitum.
Where will that lead you? Continuous misery.
Counting days gives no tangible benefit and in fact it deceives you into thinking that the worst has passed and leads you into complacency.
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Instead - follow my system - and you won't need to worry about the count. You just need to focus on the problems of real life instead of the mental demons of porn.